Credit Card Department Psychosis

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POST #19
Debt settlement is a very interesting process.

  • On the one hand it is simple: you negotiate a lump sum payment with your bank at a fraction of the amount owed and you both go your separate ways.
  • On the other hand, you are dealing with a corporation and as you may know from the movie The Corporation.

“If the dominant institution of our time [the corporation] has been created in the image of the psychopath, who bears the moral responsibility for it’s actions?”

This is the crux of the problem with debt settlement. It isn’t that the bank doesn’t want to settle, it’s that they behave like psychopaths.  Let’s remember:

  • In October, the credit department told me the never for less than 85%
  • In November the collection department told me the never settle for less than 60%
  • In December the recovery department told me they never settle for less than 40%

So how did I get a settlement for 35%?
Simple answer: Corporations are psychotic!

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But really, it came down to this. I discovered that when dealing with a corporation like a bank, I have to understand that different departments have different standards and quotas. The collections department is supposed to stonewall you at 60% because they know most consumers will be intimidated and settle. The bank also knows that once your account is in the recovery department, they have to make a better offer or will likely get nothing. Your credit will suffer once your account is in recovery, and they will use this as a bargaining chip. I already knew that credit repair was in my future, so I couldn’t let a few more points get in the way of a good deal.  Playing chicken with the bank!
Additionally, the deal can be contingent on the personality and mood of the rep with whom you are speaking.  Does this sound arbitrary and unfair? Yes. And it is.
With this information, I was able to navigate through the psychosis of the bank.

Top 5 points that helped me get good deal

  1. I didn’t get riled up by the reps who tried to incite me.

  2. I waited until the account went to the recovery department.

  3. I timed my negotiation at the end of the month, when reps were trying to meet quotas.

  4. I timed my negotiation at the end of the year, even bigger quotas on the line.

  5. I understood that the bank is a psychotic being and can (and will!) change it’s mind at the drop of dime…..or a few thousand bucks! 🙂

In the coming posts, I’ll discuss how I settled my 2 biggest accounts on December 31st, 2009. Last day of the last month of the year.  Let’s just say, that helped.
Stay tuned. Stay afloat. Wealth and freedom are in your future.
Jonathan

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Debt Settlement Mathematics: 2 + 2 = delinquent

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POST #17
So here I am in the middle of the story.  It’s a waiting game, but not without excitement. The collections calls have accelerated to 3-4 times a day and the letters come 2-3 times a week.
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I have repeated my story dozens of times to dozens of different representatives.  After consulting with my CRN rep, we decided to pursue one of my accounts more actively because it was accelerated to charge off .
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The bank normally delays putting accounts into charge off for about 150 days, BUT they have the option of doing it earlier.
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I kept track of how the accounts were progressing but the rules seemed to keep changing. I’d call on Monday and they’d say I was 120 days late and charge off was in 30 days. Then I’d call again on Friday, 5 days later, and they’d say the account was 143 days late and charge off was in 17 days. If you ask me, that’s funny math…..and we all wonder why our numbers in Quicken or Quickbooks never match the bank’s numbers!  The reps were just playing games to scare me into making a payment. Nice try!!!
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Regardless of their math, I kept calling every couple of days and kept careful notes. I knew a settlement was imminent. This account had a balance of about $20,000.  I would offer $5,000 as a settlement, and they would counter at $15,000. Every rep said that even if they could get a manager to approve a lower offer, they had never seen a settlement for lower than 60% or in my case, $12,000.
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That was a BLATANT lie.  Banks regularly make debt settlements for 25%-35%, but each department has certain restrictions. The Collections Department usually can’t go lower than 50%. However, once your account moves to charge off, the rules change.
On November 25, 2009, I made my final call to the Collections Department.
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Then next day was Thanksgiving.
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I decided to take the day off from calling the bank, knowing that on Friday, I would call the Recovery Department. Truthfully, I was hoping to cut a deal prior to Thanksgiving so that I would have something to celebrate, but it all worked out for the best. In fact, my CRN rep encouraged me to fold my Thanksgiving dinner into the next conversation with the bank.
Stay tuned. Stay afloat. Wealth and freedom are in your future.
Jonathan

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Debt Settlement is like playing chicken with the bank

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POST #16
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So here I am in the midst of my first debt settlement conversation and the rep is trying to get a payment out of me in order to avoid charge off. This scenario had come up in prior conversations with my CRN counselor.
What CRN explained is that making a payment to avoid charge off is like hitting the reset button on the debt settlement process. I am still in debt for the full amount, but now out 500 bones. Even worse, the bank knows they can stronghold me into making payments again. The whole idea of debt settlement is to explain to the bank that you can’t afford to make payments, but you can afford to borrow money from another source to pay off the debt at a compromised sum.
My CRN rep also explained that the bank is MORE willing to settle for a lower amount once the account goes to charge off.  Yes, there was a risk that the bank will escalate my case and take me to court, but this was a small risk since I had been in such close contact with them.
As such, I decided to roll the dice. I ONCE AGAIN told the rep that since I am in a financial hardship, I can”™t come up with $500.  I won’t ask a family member to borrow $500 to only get current on my debt. The loan from a family member was contingent on eliminating my debt with the bank.  Reluctantly, the rep wished me luck and said they would stay in touch.
I want to acknowledge an important point here.  The tide had shifted. I was more in control. The bank was willing to settle. They couldn’t scare me with bad credit ratings and charge off threats. I knew the longer we both waited, the more likely that I would get a lower settlement offer.

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Yes, I was playing chicken with the bank.
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BUT, I felt very confident and informed due to my personal focus, steady education and CRN’s expert coaching.
Stay tuned. Stay afloat. Wealth and freedom are in your future.
Jonathan

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Credit Card Withdrawal

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POST #12
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At this point I am on the path to becoming debt free.

  • I acknowledged that I needed to make a change.
  • Chose debt settlement.
  • Found the right debt settlement company for my needs.
  • Stopped making payments.
  • Called my bank to let them know I was in a financial hardship.

NOW WHAT?

This next step in the process was probably the biggest shocker of them all. You see, since I had committed my lines of credit and credit card to a settlement program, I could no longer use them.

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uh-oh.

I can’t charge anything?

How will I live?

This was a real wake up call. I soon realized that I couldn’t actually afford my lifestyle. The first change I made was to either pay cash or use my debit card for all of my purchases.  This forced me to make hard decisions. If I didn’t have the money in my account, I wouldn’t buy it.
Simple enough………to say that is.  But not that simple to do. I had to undo decades of habitual overspending.
Time to start making choices. So what would I cut out? There were dozens of adjustments I made, but here are a few:

  • No more Starbucks
  • No more impromptu lunches out with friends.
  • Probably don’t need that Netflix subscription.
  • Say goodbye to HBO.
  • Whole Foods is WAY TOO EXPENSIVE and off the hit list.
  • Costco is my friend.
  • Instead of turning on the heat, I put on a sweater.
  • Cancel the cleaning lady and the gardener. Sunday is family cleaning day.
  • Do I really need the extra soft toilet paper?
  • I LOVE generic everything! 🙂

The most interesting by-product of these changes was that I started living more consciously.  Every decision was challenged. A distinction was made between my needs and my wants.
I have a greater appreciation for the thriftiness of my grandparents. I used to make fun of my grandmother for delicately unwrapping presents in hopes of trying to re-use the wrapping paper……well….I still laugh about that one. Some things really are ridiculous!!
Stay tuned. Stay afloat. Wealth and freedom are in your future.
Jonathan
P.S. As an aside, I did keep a few low balance, low interest credit cards out of the program for emergency purposes. I have kids, so I do need a safety net. That said, I made a promise to myself, and my family, that these cards were to be used for emergencies only. No frivolous usage.

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Debt Settlement: a simple truth

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POST #10
Debt settlement presented many challenges.

  • I had to stay focused on my goal.

  • Trust the process.

  • Stop making payments on my credit cards and lines of credit.

Wait….what did I just say? Stop making payments?!!?

STOP MAKING PAYMENTS???

Yes, this is true. The banks won’t consider negotiation if you are making your monthly payments on your loan. What is their incentive? You haven’t proven any need. It seems weird at first, but it makes sense. This process is predicated on need. The clearest way to show the bank that you are experiencing a financial hardship is to stop paying.
Please let me clarify. I am in no way condoning that you stop making payments just because you don’t feel paying your bill anymore. I am saying that if you are in a financial hardship and have decided debt settlement is your best option, the first step you will take is to stop making your monthly payments.
This was VERY hard for me to do.
You see, I never missed a bill, never was late. I was definitely irresponsible with money, but for some reason I thought being late was a real no no. I had no problem borrowing more than I could afford, but dammit if I was going to be late on a payment.
So….in August 2009, I stopped paying the monthly charges for my 3 lines of credit and 1 credit card.

The Cops are Here
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It was a bit scary at first. Yes, the calls started, yes the questions started and I have to admit it was a weird feeling. And by weird, I mean CRAPPY IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD. I expected the sky to fall. I expected the cops to show up and haul me off in hand cuffs.
Much to my surprise, none of this happened. In fact, when I called the banks to explain my situation, they were quite sympathetic. I didn’t receive any snarky attitude for the first 30 days of delinquency.
In the coming posts, I’ll discuss how things changed (or didn’t!) as I got more delinquent.
BTW: I constantly stayed in touch with the banks. As a result, they knew I wasn’t on the lamb. This continual communication had a positive impact on my process. Yes, it was difficult to repeat my hardship story over and over. Often it made me feel like a loser. BUT….I knew it was part of the process. I kept my eye on the ball, checked my ego at the door and moved forward.
Stay tuned. Stay afloat. Wealth and freedom are in your future.
Jonathan

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Debt Vs You – are you ready to slay Goliath?

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POST #7


The biggest benefit of debt settlement is the feeling of control. For the the first time in 3 years, I feel like the captain of my ship.
In an earlier post, I mentioned the concept of passing the threshold of caring. You convince yourself its okay to spend more money by saying, “I am already $100,000 in debt. What’s another $1200?”
As of my phone call to CRN on July 2nd 2009, I went back into the THRESHOLD OF CARING!
This was a HUGE step in my personal recovery from debt. I immediately felt better. This is an important point and a big part of why debt settlement can be successful.

  • Even before I removed a penny of debt, I felt like a new person.

  • I had taken back control of my life

Debt had been running my life, or should I say RUINING my life. Now that was going to stop. I had committed to change. I had talked about my problem with someone, WHO I TRUSTED, and that person knew how to help me.

WITH DEBT SETTLEMENT, I STARTED CARING AGAIN.

The minute I started caring, I stopped spending. Instead of ignoring my debt, I was focusing on eliminating it. I could envision a life of being debt-free. I could see the path to freedom.

Debt settlement was my slingshot to kill this Goliath.

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Up until that point, I was in a tailspin and couldn’t see a way out. Now I could see a clear path to recovery. Because the program made sense, I was able to fully engage and get excited about it.  Based on my situation, using the DIY debt settlement program with CRN, the dragon would be slayed within 12 months (or less)….and I could see it.

Debt settlement isn’t for everyone. Among other factors, you have to be willing to face your problems head on; you must get honest with yourself; and you must be tenacious.

The benefit of debt settlement goes far beyond getting out of debt. It is really about taking control of your financial life. Once you decide to take control you will IMMEDIATELY feel better. Trust me.

After committing, I asked myself:

“If I feel this great by committing to this program, what will I feel like when I actually settle my debt?”

Freedom was in my future and that future was NOW!

TAKE CONTROL. TAKE OWNERSHIP. BE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR SHIP.

WEALTH AND FREEDOM ARE IN YOUR FUTURE!
Jonathan Grossman

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Debt Settlement Companies, Some Incur More Debt

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POST #4
Research! Research! Research!
You will hear me say this dozens of times. As a consumer, it is our responsibility to be educated and informed. The lack of education, laziness, or in my case, DENIAL, gets us in trouble.
I vowed to never again be an uninformed consumer. With that in mind, I put all of my efforts in to finding the best debt settlement options.  I spent 4 weeks and about 40 hours on the phone talking with different companies.
There is a barrage of information out there. Just by typing debt settlement into Google, you will get 8,650,000 results. Click HERE.

Insane. It is daunting to cull through these resources and decipher what the hell they are offering. I took my time to understand my options. My first calls were to the obvious big companies like: Credit Solutions, Ameridebt and CuraDebt.  But I also looked into some of the lesser known companies like Pacific Debt.  Here was the standard offer:

  • I was to deposit $2000/month into an escrow account.
  • The first 6 months of these payments into that escrow account would go towards paying the debt settlement company for their services.
  • I would continue to make $2000 payments for approximately 36 months.
  • As settlement offers came in, they would consult me.
  • The banks would be paid from this settlement account.
  • In 36 months, I would be out of debt.

At first, I was very excited and relieved about a solution to my problem.
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Below are the estimated savings and expenses from 2 of the companies I spoke with. As you can see there is an incredible amount of variance. A lot of that deals with the fees and the length of time you take to settle.

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If they got a 50% savings on my $130,000 of debt, it would take 41 months of $2000/month payments to get out of debt. Total cost including settlements and fees:$81,900.
If they got a 60% savings on my $130,000 of debt, it would take 36 months of $2000/month payments to get out of debt. Total cost including settlements and fees: $71,500.
If they a 75% savings on my $130,000 of debt, it would take 28 months of $2000/month payments to get out of debt. Total cost including settlements and fees: $55,900.

PacificDebt

With $130,000 of debt, it would take 46 months of $2000/month payments to get out of debt. Total cost including settlements and fees: $90,995.
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Pretty interesting stuff, right!?!
After a few days, I saw something that didn’t make sense:

  • Before I would decrease any of my debt, the debt settlement company would increase my debt on average of $12,000 because they get paid first!
  • All of the companies say the bank offers their best deals during the first six months – but according to their suggested schedule, I would have no money left in my escrow account at 6 months because all of that $12,000 would go towards paying the debt settlement company their fees. Which by they way, is for a service they haven’t even performed. Let me repeat this because it is critical.

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THE BEST OFFERS COME AT THE 6 MONTH MARK.  EVEN THOUGH I WOULD HAVE ACCUMULATED $12,000 IN MY ESCROW ACCOUNT, I WOULDN”™T HAVE ANY MONEY LEFT IN THERE TO PAY THE SETTLEMENT OFFER BECAUSE THAT MONEY ALREADY WENT TO PAY THE DEBT SETTLEMENT COMPANY!!!!

Talk about the contradictions!? In many cases, clients get discouraged at that point. They drop out of the program and declare bankruptcy. These debt settlement companies thrive on our falling out of the program. They are predatory companies much in the same way the credit cards are predatory lenders. Remember what I said about educating myself?  I would not be a victim a second time around.
So let’s review…. this is why most debt settlement companies are scoundrels:

  • I pay the debt settlement company $12,000.
  • In 6 months, the bank makes an offer.
  • Since I have no money in my escrow account, I ask the bank to spread the payments out over the next 6 months so I can have time to accumulate some funds.
  • The bank declines because most of their settlement offers have a 90 day payment time-frame.
  • Threatened by liens and judgments, I drop out of the program and declare bankruptcy.
  • The bank writes off my debt.
  • The debt settlement makes pure profit.

I proposed this contradiction to the reps, but their response was foggy at best. Since I was using the information they gave me to explain this contradiction, they didn’t have an answer that made sense. Instead, they deflected my question by saying they can get a better deal than I can get myself. WHICH IS TOTALLY UNTRUE BY THE WAY!
It became clear that the rep was just a sales person and had no REAL idea about this process. Once enrolled, I would never talk to him again.
As I said before, lets take ownership and take control. I fell into the debt trap, but I was not going to fall into the debt settlement companies’ trap.
Please don’t be so desperate and incur more debt when you are trying to get out of debt. If you take the time to run the numbers, you will see most programs don’t make sense.  An effective debt settlement company will charge a nominal start up fee, base their commission on performance AND take their commission AFTER you have paid the bank. Sound too good to be true? Stay tuned!
In the next post, I will discuss how some debt settlement companies are true consumer advocates.
Stay tuned, stay afloat. WEALTH AND FREEDOM ARE IN YOUR FUTURE!
Jonathan Grossman

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Debt Relief- So Many Options

POST #3
Research. Research. Research.
Once I finally realized that the end was near, I started doing extensive research on my options. Of course the first thing I thought of was bankruptcy. It was all I knew. I thought if you got behind on your bills, your only option was the big B.
With a few clicks on the web, I soon found a zillion companies offering many options. In the next post I’ll share some of my observations on the different companies, but today we’ll focus on the five most likely options you have:

  1. Bankruptcy – Chapter 13 or 7

  2. Debt Consolidation

  3. Consumer Credit Counseling

  4. Debt Settlement

  5. Nothing…which usually gets you back to the top of this list. Not a real option.

For a complete explanation of these options and an analysis of which option is best for you, CLICK HERE.
Here’s what I discovered for my situation:
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Bankruptcy

For me, bankruptcy felt like the death of my soul. A complete failure and announcement to the world that I had screwed up so badly that my only option was to wave the white flag. I had regular conversations with my wife about this option. Was this our destination? How could I face my family and friends? Just 2 years ago I was flying high. Now….death. Thinking back on it, the reason I did so much research was because I was compelled to find another way. I wasn’t going down without a fight. There MUST be another option.

Consumer Credit Counseling

I was familiar with consumer credit counseling. In fact, I had done this about 9 years ago. When my band, Dogwood Moon, got off the road we had accumulated a bit of debt. In order to gain some sense of control and balance in my life, I got a company to manage my debt. I made a lump sum monthly payment to them and they distributed it to my creditors. They tried to get the bank to lower my interest rates, but none of them actually could. Of course they took a fee, and although it was modest, there was really no significant benefit from the company. They just held my hand throughout the whole thing. I could have done it myself, had I been more disciplined. I soon realized this and when I made a bit of money, I paid the whole thing off early. Wasn’t a bad option then, but I wouldn’t do it again. In 2009 consumer credit counseling wasn’t really an option. I couldn’t afford to pay my bills, so it wouldn’t help me if they collected my money and distributed it. The money wasn’t there.

Debt Consolidation

My credit wasn’t good enough to get a decent loan for $130,000. Even if I did, I’d be making payment for the rest of my life. This would take too long and ultimately cost too much. I wanted to take action, rectify my situation and start over. This would be a slow process. I am not a slow kind of guy. I had finally decided to take action and I wanted to get it done….NOW!

Debt Settlement

When I came across the idea of Debt Settlement for the first time, it was a real eye opener for me. I hadn’t even considered the prospect of negotiating with the banks in this way. I never thought of the bank as a collection of real people. It just seemed like a monster I had made a bad deal with and was now sucking up all my money. With Debt Settlement, you call your bank and negotiate a lump sum payoff of the account that is less than full balance. This negotiation can be done in 3 different ways:

  1. You do it on your own

  2. You do it while being coached by a debt settlement specialist.

  3. You hire a company to negotiate on your behalf and pay them a fee. BEWARE: THESE FEES CAN VARY DRASTICALLY! I will discuss this in the next post.

After careful thought, I chose Debt Settlement, option 2. At the heart of Debt Settlement is the ability to negotiate. This was very appealing to me because I love negotiating. My father is a retired lawyer. Growing up was like a series of scenes from that Albert Brooks movie, Defending Your Life. At an early age, I was trained to ask for things in a diplomatic way, stick to my guns and be prepared for the inevitable interrogation. Maybe I should have been a lawyer! You will think I am crazy when I say this, but I have actually enjoyed the Debt Settlement process. I chose a company that was a true consumer advocate. They didn’t charge exorbitant fees and the debt settlement specialist assigned to my case was nothing short of awesome. In my humble opinion, critical to your success with Debt Settlement is the company that assists you. Some of them actually will save you money. Others will take advantage of you and PUT YOU FURTHER IN DEBT.
In the next post, I’ll discuss the companies I chose to avoid and the company I ended up using, Consumer Recovery Network.
Stay tuned, stay afloat. WEALTH AND FREEDOM ARE IN YOUR FUTURE!

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$130,000 of Credit Debt – The Beginning: How could I Let It Happen?

POST # 2
When I look back on what happened, the writing was on the wall. If I had been smart enough to have a business manager, this would have never happened.
In 2004, things were going great. I was newly married, had no kids, no debt and had just bought my first home. I was composing music for the hit television show Joan of ArcadiaMoney was no object. I was like a kid in candy store. Just 4 years earlier, I was living in a mini-van with my wife (then girlfriend) touring the United States as a folk rock duo, Dogwood Moon. We were lucky to make $5,000/month and if we did, we felt like we had money.
All of sudden I got a lucky break and I was making well over $400,000/yr. I had no debt aside from my home.  My savings account was steadily growing and about to hit $100,000. Neither my wife, nor I, could spend all the money. It was nice, to say the least.
We went about our business for the next 2 years. Saving a bunch and spending a bunch. I justified my spending because I had a great job and was saving a butt-load of cash every month. Why not spend!?!?
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Mistake number 1:

ASSUMING THE GOOD TIMES WILL LAST FOREVER

Fast forward to 2006.

  • My TV show got canceled.

  • The economy tanked.

  • The real estate market tanked.

  • My interest only 2 yr ARM was about to be called.

  • My wife gave birth to our first beautiful child.

  • None of my contacts in the biz were working.

  • I went thru all of my savings…..yup ALL $100,000 of it.

  • I borrowed another $80,000 from a line of credit on my house.

There were a lot red flags….but I ignored them.
I kept thinking that big gig was right around the corner.  Well guess what? It wasn’t.

But that didn’t stop me. I kept acting like I was still making a lot of money. I had the POTENTIAL didn’t I? Why severely adjust my lifestyle when things will pick up any minute?
By the end of 2006, I finally made some changes. Here’s where I stood:

  • I sold my home for a profit.

  • I paid off the $80,000 line of credit.

  • I had about $80,000 in cash profit from the sale.

  • No job, but lots of prospects.

  • Ignorant hope that everything would just work itself out.

Instead of socking that money away and downsizing to an apartment within our means. I did what any wide-eyed monkey with a little bit of money and the ignorant hope of future success would do:

I BOUGHT ANOTHER HOUSE AND SUNK ALL OF THAT MONEY INTO REMODELING IT.

You see, I had turned a nice profit from my first house. That was easy, right? It would happen again, right. WRONG. That wrong assumption was the straw the broke the camel’s back.

From July 2007- July 2009 I dug myself into the deepest financial hole of my life.

Here were my other BIG MISTAKES:

  • I lived beyond my means.

  • Instead of saving some of my small real estate profit, I put it back into the sagging real estate market.

  • I continued to spend most of my time trying to get gigs in the TV market – which had crashed.

  • And finally:  DENIAL, DENIAL, DENIAL!

In July 2009, things came to a head. I was $130,000 in debt and living off my lines of credit. I had 2 more months of that until there would be no choice other than bankruptcy.
Desperation is the mother of invention. I would feel humiliated to go bankrupt, foreclose on our house. I couldn’t let myself be a Hollywood statistic……even though I already was!
After 6 weeks of research I came to the conclusion that debt settlement was the right choice for me. In the next few posts I’ll discuss:

  • Why I chose debt settlement over bankruptcy, consumer credit counseling or debt consolidation?

Stay tuned, stay afloat. WEALTH AND FREEDOM ARE IN YOUR FUTURE!

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Debt Settlement – The Gory Details

POST # 1
You are about to read a very personal story about me.
I am a happily married, 40 year-old father of two precious little kids. I live in Los Angeles, California and my name is Jonathan Grossman.  This sounds like an introduction to an AA meeting.  In some ways it is!
Back in 2004, I was making a great living as a TV composer and enjoying the high life with my wife. By 2006, we had our first child and I was unemployed, living off savings and hoping things would turn around. By 2009, I had 2 kids, went through all of my savings and managed to accumulate $130,000 in debt. Things were not getting better and I had to make a move.
This story is a lot of things. First off, it’s true. But even more than that, it is a brutal examination of the American economy from the point of view of the consumer. In many ways, I am the typical Hollywood story combined with the typical real estate boom home buyer. I was irresponsible and wreck-less and the financial climate was my gracious enabler.
This story will tell the tale of how I got myself into this financial mess, and I how I chose to get myself out of it.  For the record, I take 100% responsibility for creating all of this debt. I am not for a second blaming anyone but myself!
The story has a horrific beginning, but a great ending. Without further delay, here are some details.
In July 2009 this is where I stood:

→$104,000 in unsecured personal lines of credit

→$26,000 in credit card debt

  • Owned, or rather “owed”, my home which was fully financed at $880,000 and it was underwater.

→If I sold it, I wouldn’t even be able to pay off my mortgage.

  • Monthly bills:                 $18,000
  • Monthly net income:    $12,500

→Monthly deficit:  $6,500

  • I was drawing from my personal lines of credit to help pay the bills each month.
  • I was drawing from those very same lines of credit to make the minimum payments on them each month.
  • I had 2-3 more months before the credit ran out…MAXIMUM DEBT VELOCITY.

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HERE WERE MY FEARS!

  • Foreclose on my house.
  • Feel humiliated with my family and friends.
  • Declare bankruptcy.
  • Look into the sweet little eyes of my 4 year old son and explain why we have to move from our home, leave pre-school, make new friends.
  • Admit to my wife that I had let the family down.
  • Admit to myself that I was a failure.

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HOW DID I LET IT GET THIS BAD?

NYC: National Debt Clock

I’ll tell you.

  • I didn’t save enough for a rainy day.
  • I kept hoping things would turn around.
  • I ignored the obvious downward spiral.
  • Once I started to fall into the pit, I passed the threshold of caring.

I LET MYSELF GO DEEPER BY SAYING “I AM ALREADY $100,000 IN DEBT. WHAT’S ANOTHER $5,000 AT THIS POINT?”
Here’s my story of how I got into $130,000 in debt and how I am getting myself out of it. I am not yet done by the way.

BIG DISCLAIMER!!!!

Let me be clear up front.  I am not a debt settlement counselor. I do not work for any of the debt settlement companies. I do not profess to be an expert or in any way imply that you are guaranteed to have the same results I am having.
Things that can or will happen if you choose Debt Settlement include:

  • A lot of HARD WORK.
  • A lot of time, focus and resilience.
  • Rhino skin and tenacity.
  • You MIGHT be threatened with law suits.
  • You will have creditors calling you all the time.
  • Your credit will suffer.
  • You MIGHT have to pay taxes on the amount of debt that the bank forgives.

It is NOT easy. As I just said, you need rhino skin and tenacity. But, if you are willing to do your homework, you may find that debt settlement is the right road for you.
I did A LOT of research and ended up using a debt settlement company that was extraordinary. I will wholeheartedly recommend them because I believe they are fair, supremely skilled and a true consumer advocate. My intention is to give back to the very company that gave me so much.

Here’s the deal about this blog:

  • Take what is useful.
  • Toss what isn’t.
  • Call my recommended company if you are inclined…..BUT…..do your research. Call a dozen of them.
  • You may discover what I discovered.
  • There are only a few debt settlement companies that are really there to help.

The one I used, Consumer Recovery Network, was incredible for me. I imagine they could help you as well. Throughout this blog you will notice that I keep mentioning Consumer Recovery Network (CRN). They are the only company that I have worked with and therefore the only company with which I have first-hand experience.
As I said, I highly recommend them. Definitely call them to see if they can help you the way they helped me.

But please, please, please. DO YOUR RESEARCH!
So here it goes…..my debt settlement story.
Stay tuned, stay afloat. WEALTH AND FREEDOM ARE IN YOUR FUTURE!

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