First Debt Settlement Deal

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POST #18
On Friday, November 27, I made my first call to the Recovery Department. Knowing they would offer a better deal, I was quite optimistic.
As a conquering hero, I picked up the phone like a sword ready to slay my first debt dragon.

St George Slaying the Dragon

In this conversation, I integrated a technique that CRN had suggested – make my story real to the bank. If they see me as a family and not a number, they will be more likely to settle.  I re-told my back story with one addition – Thanksgiving dinner. It went something like this.
“At Thanksgiving dinner yesterday, I was really thinking about my debt.  I am so grateful for my family and I want to do everything I can to take care of them. As I said before, with my mortgage, child care etc”¦really struggling to get by. I want to do everything I can do avoid bankruptcy….”
This may seem manipulative, but it is also true for me.  Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. It was authentic for me to talk about its meaning and how the imminence of bankruptcy reminded me what I am thankful for. I was sure my authenticity would help my case and make a settlement that day a sure thing. GUESS WHAT!!!!???

IT DIDN’T MAKE A SINGLE BIT OF DIFFERENCE THAT DAY.

But that didn’t deter me.
On 12/2, I finally made some headway.
I offered $5k to settle my $20k line of credit.  There was something different this day. This rep was the stereotypical bill collector. He had attitude and was attacking my credibility. He fired out questions like a machine gunman at a firing line.

  • How much are you making?

  • Your numbers don”™t add up? Who’s giving you money?

  • Why are you paying your other creditors and not us?

bull-dog

Had I been unprepared, I would have crumbled. This rep was like a bull dog.
He DID NOT believe me, nor did he like what I was saying. However, I just stayed calm. Explained my story again, as I had dozens of times before and waited for him to come around.
After 20 minutes of grilling, he finally agreed to take my $5K offer to his supervisor and then…………..play the victorious music…….

He came back on the line and to say his supervisor had approved a settlement for $6924.11, or 35% of the total.

I was ecstatic, though I didn’t let him know this. I couldn’t just jump at the offer because according to my story, I had to come up with another $2K. I thanked him for the generous offer, but said I needed to make a call to see if I could arrange for the additional funds.
In reality, I had saved and borrowed money in advance so that when this moment came I would have funds on hand.  I asked him to fax the offer so I had it writing. True to bullish form, this rep gave me a hassle about faxing a letter.
Hear me when I say this:

Without anything in writing, your verbal agreement is at jeopardy.

If you send in funds without an agreement in writing, they can apply those funds to principal, deny that a deal was cut and hold you on the hook for the balance.  Seems egregious, but it does happen.
After what seemed like hours of haggling, this bull dog faxed the letter. Per our agreement, I called back 2 days later and paid by check over the phone.
This was one of the greatest days of my life. It was a rush and definitely inspired me to move forward with my 3 other accounts. Holy cow! This method really works. I jumped for joy, hugged my wife, called my CRN rep……and then went back to the drawing board.
This was only 1 of 4 accounts and by far the smallest account. I still had another $110,000 to deal with…..but I was optimistic. And for good reason.
Stay tuned. Stay afloat. Wealth and freedom are in your future.
Jonathan

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Debt Settlement Lies

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POST #9
What the heck has happened to your country that every decision we make is based on FEAR?
I am afraid I will go broke?  I am afraid I will die? I am afraid I will get sued? I am afraid of being abducted by aliens!
Really? Is this what our society has come to? What ever happened to personal power and positive thinking? I am not talking about head in the clouds Voo-Doo thinking. I am just talking about common sense, clear thinking backed by research (!!!) and reasoning. Put it all together and strive for a positive outcome. Okay, I am ranting. Let me get to the point.
Debt settlement doesn’t have to be scary. But the debt settlement companies want you to think otherwise. They use half truths to manipulate you (scare you) into thinking you can’t do this without them.
Here are my top 10 lies I heard from debt settlement companies. My commentary is beneath each statement.
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#10 You can’t do this without us.

There are thousands of people like me who are proof that this is not true.
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#9 We can get you a better deal because we have a relationship with the bank.

Really? Then what will prevent them from cutting a sweetheart deal with the bank?
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#8 We can get the banks to stop calling you.

Sorry folks. The banks will not stop calling. No matter what.
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#7 It is cheaper to do it with us than any other company.

Unless they are doing it for $1200 or less, you can bet there is a cheaper way.
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#6 We charge more because we are the best.

Love this one. I would immediately hang up the phone.
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#5 Debt settlement is always better than bankruptcy.

True for some people but not all. This is a sales tool.
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#4 We use an escrow account because it’s a safer place to keep your money.

Baloney! The best place for your money IS WITH YOU!   Also, I thought hiding money under my mattress was the safest place.
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#3 We guarantee to get you a settlement of 50% or less.

By now, we all know there are no guarantees in life, especially those told to us by salesman.  If the company is so sure they are the best and warrant the high fees, they should take their cut AFTER THEY PERFORM THE PROMISED SETTLEMENT!!!!
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#2 This is your only way to recover.

ABSURD. There is never just one way to do anything.
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#1 Just sign up with us and we will take care of the rest!!

This is by far my favorite. RUN don’t walk from a company that says this. Single biggest lie you will hear. If you sign up with this company, there is good chance they will take your money and not pay your creditors. You will likely get sued and end up declaring bankruptcy. Debt settlement has run amok with fraudulence and the FCC is reworking the federal guidelines.
Stay tuned. Stay afloat. Wealth and freedom are in your future.
Jonathan

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Debt Relief- So Many Options

POST #3
Research. Research. Research.
Once I finally realized that the end was near, I started doing extensive research on my options. Of course the first thing I thought of was bankruptcy. It was all I knew. I thought if you got behind on your bills, your only option was the big B.
With a few clicks on the web, I soon found a zillion companies offering many options. In the next post I’ll share some of my observations on the different companies, but today we’ll focus on the five most likely options you have:

  1. Bankruptcy – Chapter 13 or 7

  2. Debt Consolidation

  3. Consumer Credit Counseling

  4. Debt Settlement

  5. Nothing…which usually gets you back to the top of this list. Not a real option.

For a complete explanation of these options and an analysis of which option is best for you, CLICK HERE.
Here’s what I discovered for my situation:
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Bankruptcy

For me, bankruptcy felt like the death of my soul. A complete failure and announcement to the world that I had screwed up so badly that my only option was to wave the white flag. I had regular conversations with my wife about this option. Was this our destination? How could I face my family and friends? Just 2 years ago I was flying high. Now….death. Thinking back on it, the reason I did so much research was because I was compelled to find another way. I wasn’t going down without a fight. There MUST be another option.

Consumer Credit Counseling

I was familiar with consumer credit counseling. In fact, I had done this about 9 years ago. When my band, Dogwood Moon, got off the road we had accumulated a bit of debt. In order to gain some sense of control and balance in my life, I got a company to manage my debt. I made a lump sum monthly payment to them and they distributed it to my creditors. They tried to get the bank to lower my interest rates, but none of them actually could. Of course they took a fee, and although it was modest, there was really no significant benefit from the company. They just held my hand throughout the whole thing. I could have done it myself, had I been more disciplined. I soon realized this and when I made a bit of money, I paid the whole thing off early. Wasn’t a bad option then, but I wouldn’t do it again. In 2009 consumer credit counseling wasn’t really an option. I couldn’t afford to pay my bills, so it wouldn’t help me if they collected my money and distributed it. The money wasn’t there.

Debt Consolidation

My credit wasn’t good enough to get a decent loan for $130,000. Even if I did, I’d be making payment for the rest of my life. This would take too long and ultimately cost too much. I wanted to take action, rectify my situation and start over. This would be a slow process. I am not a slow kind of guy. I had finally decided to take action and I wanted to get it done….NOW!

Debt Settlement

When I came across the idea of Debt Settlement for the first time, it was a real eye opener for me. I hadn’t even considered the prospect of negotiating with the banks in this way. I never thought of the bank as a collection of real people. It just seemed like a monster I had made a bad deal with and was now sucking up all my money. With Debt Settlement, you call your bank and negotiate a lump sum payoff of the account that is less than full balance. This negotiation can be done in 3 different ways:

  1. You do it on your own

  2. You do it while being coached by a debt settlement specialist.

  3. You hire a company to negotiate on your behalf and pay them a fee. BEWARE: THESE FEES CAN VARY DRASTICALLY! I will discuss this in the next post.

After careful thought, I chose Debt Settlement, option 2. At the heart of Debt Settlement is the ability to negotiate. This was very appealing to me because I love negotiating. My father is a retired lawyer. Growing up was like a series of scenes from that Albert Brooks movie, Defending Your Life. At an early age, I was trained to ask for things in a diplomatic way, stick to my guns and be prepared for the inevitable interrogation. Maybe I should have been a lawyer! You will think I am crazy when I say this, but I have actually enjoyed the Debt Settlement process. I chose a company that was a true consumer advocate. They didn’t charge exorbitant fees and the debt settlement specialist assigned to my case was nothing short of awesome. In my humble opinion, critical to your success with Debt Settlement is the company that assists you. Some of them actually will save you money. Others will take advantage of you and PUT YOU FURTHER IN DEBT.
In the next post, I’ll discuss the companies I chose to avoid and the company I ended up using, Consumer Recovery Network.
Stay tuned, stay afloat. WEALTH AND FREEDOM ARE IN YOUR FUTURE!

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Debt Settlement – The Gory Details

POST # 1
You are about to read a very personal story about me.
I am a happily married, 40 year-old father of two precious little kids. I live in Los Angeles, California and my name is Jonathan Grossman.  This sounds like an introduction to an AA meeting.  In some ways it is!
Back in 2004, I was making a great living as a TV composer and enjoying the high life with my wife. By 2006, we had our first child and I was unemployed, living off savings and hoping things would turn around. By 2009, I had 2 kids, went through all of my savings and managed to accumulate $130,000 in debt. Things were not getting better and I had to make a move.
This story is a lot of things. First off, it’s true. But even more than that, it is a brutal examination of the American economy from the point of view of the consumer. In many ways, I am the typical Hollywood story combined with the typical real estate boom home buyer. I was irresponsible and wreck-less and the financial climate was my gracious enabler.
This story will tell the tale of how I got myself into this financial mess, and I how I chose to get myself out of it.  For the record, I take 100% responsibility for creating all of this debt. I am not for a second blaming anyone but myself!
The story has a horrific beginning, but a great ending. Without further delay, here are some details.
In July 2009 this is where I stood:

→$104,000 in unsecured personal lines of credit

→$26,000 in credit card debt

  • Owned, or rather “owed”, my home which was fully financed at $880,000 and it was underwater.

→If I sold it, I wouldn’t even be able to pay off my mortgage.

  • Monthly bills:                 $18,000
  • Monthly net income:    $12,500

→Monthly deficit:  $6,500

  • I was drawing from my personal lines of credit to help pay the bills each month.
  • I was drawing from those very same lines of credit to make the minimum payments on them each month.
  • I had 2-3 more months before the credit ran out…MAXIMUM DEBT VELOCITY.

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HERE WERE MY FEARS!

  • Foreclose on my house.
  • Feel humiliated with my family and friends.
  • Declare bankruptcy.
  • Look into the sweet little eyes of my 4 year old son and explain why we have to move from our home, leave pre-school, make new friends.
  • Admit to my wife that I had let the family down.
  • Admit to myself that I was a failure.

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HOW DID I LET IT GET THIS BAD?

NYC: National Debt Clock

I’ll tell you.

  • I didn’t save enough for a rainy day.
  • I kept hoping things would turn around.
  • I ignored the obvious downward spiral.
  • Once I started to fall into the pit, I passed the threshold of caring.

I LET MYSELF GO DEEPER BY SAYING “I AM ALREADY $100,000 IN DEBT. WHAT’S ANOTHER $5,000 AT THIS POINT?”
Here’s my story of how I got into $130,000 in debt and how I am getting myself out of it. I am not yet done by the way.

BIG DISCLAIMER!!!!

Let me be clear up front.  I am not a debt settlement counselor. I do not work for any of the debt settlement companies. I do not profess to be an expert or in any way imply that you are guaranteed to have the same results I am having.
Things that can or will happen if you choose Debt Settlement include:

  • A lot of HARD WORK.
  • A lot of time, focus and resilience.
  • Rhino skin and tenacity.
  • You MIGHT be threatened with law suits.
  • You will have creditors calling you all the time.
  • Your credit will suffer.
  • You MIGHT have to pay taxes on the amount of debt that the bank forgives.

It is NOT easy. As I just said, you need rhino skin and tenacity. But, if you are willing to do your homework, you may find that debt settlement is the right road for you.
I did A LOT of research and ended up using a debt settlement company that was extraordinary. I will wholeheartedly recommend them because I believe they are fair, supremely skilled and a true consumer advocate. My intention is to give back to the very company that gave me so much.

Here’s the deal about this blog:

  • Take what is useful.
  • Toss what isn’t.
  • Call my recommended company if you are inclined…..BUT…..do your research. Call a dozen of them.
  • You may discover what I discovered.
  • There are only a few debt settlement companies that are really there to help.

The one I used, Consumer Recovery Network, was incredible for me. I imagine they could help you as well. Throughout this blog you will notice that I keep mentioning Consumer Recovery Network (CRN). They are the only company that I have worked with and therefore the only company with which I have first-hand experience.
As I said, I highly recommend them. Definitely call them to see if they can help you the way they helped me.

But please, please, please. DO YOUR RESEARCH!
So here it goes…..my debt settlement story.
Stay tuned, stay afloat. WEALTH AND FREEDOM ARE IN YOUR FUTURE!

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